Anonymous asked: I hate my life. My boyfriend tells me one thing, then does another. He says he'll tell girls to back off him, then the second I'm not there he's flirting with them, cuddling them holding hands with them, I wish he'd get the message that he's hurting me so badly:'( I just want to cut so badly.
aw hun, if your boyfriend is making you feel like this, then you deserve so so so much better. someone as beautiful as you could find a better, new boyfriend in anytime, i promise. don’t stay with him because you feel no one else would want you. some boys never change, maybe he just likes the attention. maybe he seeks the attention because you’re not giving him enough? i don’t know, only he does. he is not a mind reader, you need to talk to him and tell him if he doesn’t treat you like his girlfriend and continues flirting with other girls, then you’re over and how much it hurts you. if you don’t tel him he’ll never know. you have to threaten him with ending it otherwise he’ll walk all over you beautiful. don’t let this make you cut, at the end of the day he loves you, and probably doesn’t know how much this is effecting you. don’t cut because of him, he would hate to know he’s the reason for you nhurting yourself. you deserve someone that will treat you right, and you’ll get that one day i promise. stay strong beautiful
